In the vast ocean of life, confusion often accompanies us? Don't be afraid, nine soul-searching questions will help you clear the clouds and restart your journey!
Positioning Station: Who is the hero in your heart? Define your dream role and give your soul a sense of belonging!
Belief Anchor: What makes your blood boil? It is your strongest support, guiding you through the waves!
Demand Radar: At this moment, what do you desire the most? Accurately locate your needs, ensuring every step is grounded!
Sweet Exploration: Where is the "flow" in your workplace? Find it, and let passion and achievement walk side by side!
Demand Radar: At this moment, what do you desire the most? Accurately locate your needs, ensuring every step is grounded!
Sweet Exploration: Where is the "flow" in your workplace? Find it, and let passion and achievement walk side by side!
Glory Review: What are your shining moments? That pride is your fuel station for the future!
Goal Lighthouse: Which star are you aiming for? Clarify your goals, making every step shine brightly!
Action Plan: How to achieve it? With a roadmap in hand, dreams are no longer out of reach!
Morning Ritual: What does your universe say when you wake up? Let daily habits become the catalyst for your dreams!
Influence Matrix: Can your success become a light for others? Spread positive energy, making the world wonderful because of you!
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Learn A to achieve B.
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With B, you can use A to do C.
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Doing C requires spending D and E, aiming to achieve F.
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Doing C will also be influenced by G and H.
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Before doing C, read I; during C, record J; after C, extract K.
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I can be obtained from different L, which can be simply divided into: people, events, networks, and books.
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I, J, and K should be saved to M and N, and M should ideally be converted to N.
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N is the second brain, constructed with a large number of nodes O and various relationships P.
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The most important thing about N is to help you establish Q to guide actions, abstract R to guide thinking, and accumulate S to assist memory.
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N also supports you in expressing I, becoming someone else's L.
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C should be summarized in one place, managed and categorized centrally.
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Above C is T, above T is U, and above U is V.
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You live in different W, such as: family, school, company, community, society, government...
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The relationship between X in different W and you defines your different V.
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A lifetime of D is limited, and daily D is fixed.
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D can be broken down into
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Your E is earned from meeting the needs of different X, while also needing to satisfy your own needs, ultimately spending on different X.
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Your E growth is limited, so you need to find Y to amplify it.
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Because D and E are limited, you need to prioritize C, T, U, and V differently at different stages.
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W is not static but dynamic; the development process of W is Z.
A=tools
B=skills
C=tasks
D=time
E=money
F=results
G=energy
H=emotion
I=information
J=process
K=method
L=information source
M=document library
N=note library
O=cards
P=links
Q=principles
R=models
S=checklists
T=projects
U=fields
V=identity
W=systems
X=humans
Y=leverage
Z=historical process
People are a system.
Three heads: style, gimmick, and trend.
Three faces: human face, scene face, and emotional face.
Three types of money: cash, credit, and valuation.
People are a system. Previously, I divided people into five worlds: the physical world, physiological world, psychological world, narrative world, and action world.
I am a person. If you remove the physical world, for example, if the Earth explodes, then I cease to exist; if I remove the physiological world, for example, if my body perishes, then I cease to exist; if I remove the psychological world, although my heart is beating, without thoughts or emotions, my existence is as good as non-existence; if I remove the narrative world, I have thoughts, but I am not allowed to speak, write, or post videos, then I am just a mute maintaining the lowest standard of living; if I remove the action world, even though I have a wealth of knowledge and can constantly speak outward, if I am bound and cannot move, relying on others to feed me and inject nutrients, then I become an AI.
Simply put: if you throw away your phone, cut off the water, electricity, and gas at home, throw away all tools around you, and sever all interpersonal relationships, see how you live.
When one possesses, one takes everything for granted, and regards the government, interpersonal relationships, and tools that help you as “my” achievements; when one loses, one sees how small and fragile this “I” is.
When one becomes aware of the smallness and fragility of “I,” one discovers that anything one thinks can be accomplished alone actually has the help of many external people and things. You are not relying on that self-righteous “I”; the system that includes you and the surrounding people and things is the true “I.”
Two people may appear to be of similar height and weight, both having one nose and two eyes, but the systems behind these two people are different, which determines that these two people are completely different.
For example:
Energy: one cooks with natural gas, while the other gathers firewood to cook;
Tools: one drives a car, while the other rides a bicycle;
Connections: one knows 1,000 people, while the other knows 100 people; one works alone, while the other has a team;
Family: one is single, while the other is married with two children;
Skills: one knows programming, while the other does not;
Assets: one owns a house and has savings, while the other rents and has credit card debt;
Thinking: one retrieves thinking models to think, while the other thinks randomly;
Action: one focuses on goals and does productive work, while the other is distracted;
Information: one reads quality information sources filtered through RSS, while the other scrolls through Bilibili and Douyin; one finishes reading and is done, while the other writes card notes every day;
Time: one spends time on making money, family, and social circles, while the other spends time on entertainment gossip, online arguments, and flirting.
How do “people, events, and things” connect? Unravel the hidden system framework behind them!
System thinking must face a complex range of “people, events, and things” that are interwoven together, ultimately weaving into a “system.”
System thinking must face a complex range of “people, events, and things” that are interwoven together, ultimately weaving into a “system.”
System thinking is about establishing connections between here and there. People, events, and things fill here, here, there, and there, everywhere.
How to orderly weave together here, there, and each other within the range of “people, events, and things” is a challenging problem. Sometimes it seems like you are outputting